INSTITUTION OF MARRIAGE
What is this so called Institution of marriage? Why did so many marriages end up in break-up and divorces?
Many marriages failed just because they misunderstood the true meaning of marriage.
Many couples think that once they are in love, the next step is to have the Wedding and then the Honeymoon...but no matter how wonderful the Wedding and Honeymoon may be but when it comes to reality, many do not really think of the lifelong commitment ahead.
Yes....falling in love is something really wonderful, it makes u feel so happy and warm inside..on cloud 9 as some people describe it....... But remember, marriage cannot survive on just Love alone, no matter how much you say you
love each other. Going in marriage merely on Love alone is not at all enough.
A marriage needs more than just LOVE to survive....
The moment the wedding ring is slipped into the finger and the 'I do' s said....you are committed to each other. You can no longer have your total freedom as before...because each and everything you do, there is now your Other Half to think of and consider how your actions and decisions will affect him or her. Certain sacrifices will have to be made.
To some, they have lived through it and found that marriage is something wonderful. Maybe it's because they have lots in common and are sensitive to each other's needs, understand the meaning of sharing and give and take, understand what are the needs of their spouse and always understand and are willing to admit their mistakes...and change them ... for the love of each other. Could this be the key to a happy and successful marriage??
Well ... I belief this is the most important in amy marriage.
So ... think wisely before you take the next step .... Go ahead if you are ready to take the vow and commitment for a lifetime of happiness.
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